tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4998319968408780556.post8121599245969444680..comments2023-09-25T06:13:30.404-07:00Comments on Vonderhaus Life: Disclaimers (a Totally Boring Post)whttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12254948786144515945noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4998319968408780556.post-20175461947608712072010-05-04T11:45:28.298-07:002010-05-04T11:45:28.298-07:00I feel you on this one. I get in these weird mind ...I feel you on this one. I get in these weird mind games with myself. Adam started asking me "who are you blogging for?" and I realized that sometimes....I just don't know!?! Sometimes it is for Anna (documenting her life), sometimes for my audience (LOL, meaning for the grandparents and friends) and sometimes (most of the time, I think) it is just for me, because I just like doing it. But then....I get depressed when I have few comments. I start wondering "is anyone out there?" I'll admit it, I like getting the feedback. I have to stop and remind myself that I don't always comment on others' blogs because half the time I race through reading it before jumping into the next task (and, often enough, the task is something like helping wipe a poopy butt and then, well, it's kind of hard to remember to come back and say something like, hey, you're cool, keep writing. It just loses the flow, you know? ; ) )<br /><br />Anyway. Keep at it. We are out here. Do it for you, do it for us, just do it, whatever the reason. And totally DO be real. That is usually something I don't seem to have a problem with (maybe sometimes to my detriment?).Jen Grayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02633195700838756899noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4998319968408780556.post-8177463089757344132010-05-03T23:46:21.736-07:002010-05-03T23:46:21.736-07:00I know what you mean about struggling with who you...I know what you mean about struggling with who your audience is and with what exactly you're trying to tell them. I didn't want to blog for a long time because the whole idea just seemed really self-centered and like having this feeling that my mundane thoughts have more importance than they actually do.<br /><br />But, what I've gotten out of blogging now that I've started is the knowledge that my true, authentic feelings are often shared by others, and by them reading what I've written they in turn feel validated and understood. In your case, no one can truly relate to "perfect mommy" because it doesn't exist, so it's good that you don't put up that front, you know? I think honesty and humility are one of the most important things in blogs. Not humility in the sense that we put ourselves down, but in the sense that we realize we are both unique and like everyone else at the same time.Shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04924980119673941843noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4998319968408780556.post-5854920582704965492010-05-03T21:50:43.823-07:002010-05-03T21:50:43.823-07:00I am also way better at being mean than loving. D...I am also way better at being mean than loving. Do love ya, tho. Hang in there. <br /><br />And just so ya know, I don't ever comment cause I read blogs through a feeder, so commenting is a whole extra step that I don't ever (hardly) do cause I am a lazy lurker. Thereyahaveit.Amberhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09434489881489896842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4998319968408780556.post-53283554216930605982010-05-03T14:02:10.201-07:002010-05-03T14:02:10.201-07:00I just wanted to say that I LOVE reading your blog...I just wanted to say that I LOVE reading your blog, I get excited when I see a new post and I really like hearing what you have to say. You are honest and thoughtful and bring God into your writing and life in a way that feels real and honest and not annoying or trite (which I find is usually the case). I would read you every day if you posted that much! (-:<br />I think you offer a very different perspective from most mom bloggers because of your faith, your creativity, your willingness to be honest and the fact that you have 5 kids. All of those factors combined with the fact that you are YOU and no one else is YOU make you incredibly unique and wonderful and I wish you could make 6 figures doing this. Or even just a decent wage that would help out...<br />Keep writing, friend! You are not invisible and your words are worth writing...Jessihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14084979272678029583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4998319968408780556.post-7001400889848848992010-05-03T11:19:36.689-07:002010-05-03T11:19:36.689-07:00Wendy, if you become famous and make 6 figures, ca...Wendy, if you become famous and make 6 figures, can I borrow like 20,000 to pay off my truck and not really have to pay it back?? :) I love the Pioneer womans blog but I had no idea she made that much money!!! I dont know how that lady cooks, cleans, tends to the children, has time to REMODEL, and blog away!!!! I can barely tend to the children! I love when you post on your blog:)Carmellhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09609569874615205084noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4998319968408780556.post-21382850659153364482010-05-03T10:12:13.794-07:002010-05-03T10:12:13.794-07:00I totally agree with Dacve and LOOVE the friendshi...I totally agree with Dacve and LOOVE the friendship that you have for him to encourage you that way:)<br /><br />Book reviews are just hard. Its not OOH I just read a cool book or throwing a beautiful quote out..its that you "have" to write somethign and it doesnt feel natural. I struggle with them too. Its kind of like a book report. go to walmart.com or amazon.com, read through and find the different ways real people do them and knock them out:) then there will be more time to paint.<br /><br />i was thinking about ahving my kid do them as an actal book report. But then that wouldnt be my review and.....Kathyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15723750357398720115noreply@blogger.com